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Sunday 11 September 2016

8 keys to a happy relationship

  1.  Exchange of gifts: This is very crucial in relationships. Gifts captures the heart, not of the woman only or of the man only, all hearts. Most people wait too long before they can offer a gift to their partner, they keep it for anniversaries such as birthdays etc. that is not very impressive if you ask me, but it is helpful if you have been believing in expensive gifts. Stressing yourself over to provide an expensive gift can be understood if it’s once in a year, but constantly giving easy to afford gifts to one another will keep the receiver feeling like someone cares and the giver feeling responsible. Both stays happy.
  2.   Free yourself: some people are happier with a person when they had nothing more intimate, as soon as they began seeing each other differently the happiness disappeared. What is missing?That freedom to break rules. You don’t laugh out loud anymore, you are so cautious when you are with your partner, you don’t want to make mistakes in your languages, so you barley talk and the whole thing becomes boring. Free yourself, this is the person that should know your flaws, bit by bit free yourself till you can say and do what you want no matter the time.
  3.   Listen: men know how to spoil romantic moments with boring sport gist, politics and what have you but listen all the same. Women can also do same by bringing up some women sort of gist, listen. You may not have to contribute, just listen, nodding and occasionally staring at each other. You are each other’s, appreciate the man or the woman she is.
  4. Be unpredictably happy: your partner showed up later than you agree and she predicted you would be mad and you are not. Keep the question till later. If you came late yourself apologies. I believe women somehow enjoys keeping a man waiting, then wait. Scold a little and smile on. Don’t have a particular style, disagree once, don’t just let it get into your happiness. That’s how to be unpredictable, changing often in a sweet way.
  5.   Have a good sense of humor: some people don’t even know how to joke and laugh. Joke and laugh a lot. I found out that as a man revealing yourself to your partner could become a large thing to laugh about. Like when I say things like “that is the only money I have in this world, hence you must return it”, she doesn’t always get it straight, but we all go home happy at the end. Laughing always makes you guys always want to be together. Don’t be too serious. But then don’t make jokes out of serious situations.
  6.   Respect: respect doesn’t mean you cannot playfully scold each other. But if it came to a serious ground give each other enough respect. Men like being in control, respect them and let them lead but be as a good adviser. Don’t let him wander the controls himself, make suggestions and respect his decisions. Though she is your partner, she is still a lady with her own opinion you’ve got to respect that too.
  7.   Speak well of one another: in the presence of other people praising your partner brings more happiness and reward than you can ever imagine. Appreciate each other over the other day.
  8.   Learn and do something together: sing together, workout together. Those things you do with your friends try doing them over here. Make it feel normal.

Don’t make your relationship an official duty. Be as free and as bold as you can. If you cannot, don’t say you can. We’re all humans.

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