On Fulfilling Your Dreams

In the pursuit of my dreams I have met different discouragements, both from myself and from others. I have given up in  different times just to start again because someone actually told me that I was not good enough.

Life can be a mess when you have down times like mine. You might spend most part of your life visiting and trying out different areas of life without actually belonging to any. Stop and analyzed yourself, after many years what have you achieved by always quitting and trying. The truth is you have only help other people live their dreams. It’s time to start living your own dreams.

You need to stop listening to what people think about you. If you want something, don’t go about seeking for approval, go for it. You don’t need permissions anymore to become what you want to become. Permissions was okay when you were yet an adult, but now you need to take responsibility of your life. People will only talk you out of your original ideas.

Silencing external critics which could’ve been your friends and family is the first but there is a second, silencing internal critics. It says to you did you hear what they said, you know you cannot do this. Yes that’s our internal person talking, it’s been talking since you were born making you back out of what you truly wanted. If you listen to it this time again, you might have to overcome this another time, so you can pack up and quit and come back another time or you can face it now and for all, you can say to yourself I know am capable if am willing. Be willing.

Make a plan to quiet your critics the more. When you know where you want to go, you need a map to guide you. Map brings more confident and tells you look it is as simple as this. How do you want to be there. Tell yourself through writings.

Now that you have conquered all criticism you want to move on. Stop planning and start practicing. Most people spend most time of their life planning that they fail to practice what they’ve been planning. Stop for a while and take the first step. If you ever have to succeed you need to start that which you want right now.

Who said you don’t have the resources. What of that which you have right now, use it. You need to start from where you are. It might be slow but you need a lot of patience and constant work. Put in a little more time and effort and hang in there a little while and you will be surprise to know how far you’ve come.

There are many ways to get to the top. Don’t be trap by other people’s principles. If that is not comfortable with you, create your own principles and live by it. Many people back out because they can’t cope with other people’s principle. Wait, who said that’s the accepted method of getting what you want, create your own methods and lived by it. When you create your own principles and live according to it, dreams come true.