“For man to be worthy
of any rank, he must strive first to be a man.”― Lloyd Alexander
Have you ever noticed
the different level of respect awarded different individuals in a group or an
environment? Ever wonder on what basis is such respect accorded?
In every environment or
group where the members are new to each other, there is a period of grading. In
this period, different members of the group watch and observe other members,
and grade them accordingly. Some may do this in total silent and observation,
while others may choose the conversation method – that is grading the person
through his or her conversation.
The grading period is
the period of familiarity (knowing who the next man really is), and so, it is
the period you can choose a new personality easily. Gradually, people get to
know each other and conversation begins and respect differs.