Decision Making and Life performance. To Change Your Attitude Towards Decision Making.

 

The power to make Decisions is a leader’s quality.

Lack of decision making ability is one of the causes of Excessive anger, broken relationships, Dream failure, low self-esteem, low self-value and low self-worth, in summary, it is the reason you are not succeeding as a leader.

When you were a child you were never burdened with the responsibility of making decisions, you enjoyed the grace of adult’s decision, even if at times you were never comfortable with some of it.

Children are not given the responsibility of making major decisions, because every decision or choice comes with a price, either positive or negative.

The choices you make determines how much you know, value and like yourself. Refusing to make a choice is a choice on its own.

The power to make a choice was given to you long ago. Some people are still hunted by the shadows of childhood, in which adults were their sole decision makers and so they fail to make decision themselves.

The Principle of Focus. The One at a Time

Okay, I know you have so many ideas, and you can even lend some to the world and still have enough left over for yourself, but I also know that if you do not apply the principle of focus you won’t be able to use any of those ideas to its full potential.

It is commonly very tempting to squeeze the whole sweet cake into your tiny mouth, but we both know what happens when you attempt to do that, the fun suddenly turns into a struggle.

So many ideas at a time is as dangerous as no ideas at all. Why did I say that? People do have so many ideas and never accomplish any. They get choked up trying to accomplish all of it at a time. When you are choked, you may spit it out.

Being a jack of all trade and a master of none will not take you very far. But becoming a master in one at a time is much better.

Probably you have heard this before “Bite what you can chew”, but you have never understood it. Let me tell you about it.

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How to Know if your Dream is Genuine;Clearing The Confusion Between a Dream And a Fantasy.

In the past, I have had this difficulty differentiating between a dream and an imaginary fantasy. So many people confuse dreams for fantasy and many others confused fantasy for dreams. This confusion have caused many dreams to go down the pit.

However, Dreams and Fantasy are not too far apart, in the sense that both has to do with the mind and imagination. There are both thoughts.

Although these two are related in terms of the mind and Imaginative power, only one of it can be brought to reality and that is called Dream.

Dreams then are thought patterns, that possess the capacity to become a reality.

While on the other hand, imaginary fantasy are thought patterns, which entices the mind, but have no capacity to become a reality.

To know if your thought patterns (imaginations) is genuine, you need to constantly put it to test which I will tell you about.

Part 2- “Nothing Good Happens when You Hold Back”- Home Run

What good are we speaking of?

A man once shared his life story, how he came to become a fluent man, bold and a great public speaker, he said to me “I lived an intimidated and a shy life before my encounter. There was a day when a great woman, who was good enough to control an entire congregation of a church asked me to take over and control a certain aspect of the day’s service, I didn’t know how to say No, as this was what I always wish to do, and I didn’t know how to say Yes, as I didn’t have any skill nor experience in public speaking, but am sure if she asked, if I was willing to do it, I would have said yes.”

“While waiting for my time to mount the podium, I could hear my heart beats drumming. I had a cold palm, I had a dry throat. Unwillingly, I had to go to the bathroom more than twice, and the woman would say to me, “make sure you don’t go far, you time is close”.

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Part 1-“Nothing Good Happens When You Hold Back.”- Home Run

“Jump, and you will find out how to open your wings when you fall.”- Ray Bradbury

Have you heard of this before? Some days ago, I stumble upon this phrase “Nothing good happens when you hold back” in the movie, Home Run. What does this mean, I asked myself.

So many people hold back too often. Holding back from a thing, that you know in your heart that you are capable and deserving of, has kept you from emerging in your destiny.

To hold back simply implies, refusing to take action, refusing to make a decision, refusing to make a change, refusing to take hold of opportunities.

Why do people hold back?

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Becoming The Best There is to Become

Is the person you are capable of taking you where you wish to go?

Our world is changing, yesterday is not today and tomorrow cannot be today. There is no time new things do not emerge and existing ones submerge. To be a better you, you must be constantly emerging.

Becoming a better you is a conscious effort which includes many different aspects that you may not really like, but if you are sure that you want to be a better version of you, you must do them still.

The communication system today cannot be compared with the communication system that existed ten years back. I am pretty sure the human generation back in time did not have any problem using a large phone. None of them knew the potentials that was hidden away in those telephones. But through constant work and investment we arrived at our present day mobile phones, small and portable. Who knew and who knows?

The human system is built with the capacity for upgrades. When you fail to consciously and constantly work on yourself you remain outdated, in other words submerged in the human index. The original version of which you were born with was never enough for you to survive in a harsh world like ours. To make sure you possess the version that will enable you to survive your parent upgraded you through the school system.

However, this was only to help you survive, not to die. Now it’s up to you to decide how you wish to survive, do you want to live and die a failure, mediocre or the opposites? This choice is yours to consciously make, and it determines how better you will be.

There are limitless potentials left untapped within you, and until you decide that you are no more comfortable with your level existence you can never discover them. There is a better you in you, waiting to be discovered.

So many people live and die a little different from how they were born, they never discover what they are capable of, such a wasted potential.

If you want to get to anywhere in life, you have to be better than you are already. You have to know a little of everything, you have to know how to blend into anywhere, you have to know how to use your mind, you have to master yourself and you need to be a person of principles.

Originally you were created without any software. The creator consciously left those empty spaces for you to fill the way you like. What you were born with is likable to a computer hard ware. Refusing to be better is like refusing to install the necessary software which will help you maximize the full potential of your computer. The computer manual may say that you will be able to input words through typing, the computer company may promise all this things but if you don’t install the Micro Word software you will never discover that potential.

Until you bring into your being the right components consciously and consistently you will never discover your full potential. In the computer aspect new software are being replaced by newer software for best experience. Same with the human system. What you know at this moment is not enough. But to keep learning is how to stay afloat. There are four ways in which you can constantly keep emerging.

How To Constantly Emerge and Remain Floating.

1.  Master yourself: you cannot set out to do a thing and do it till completion without self-discipline, and until you master yourself you can never tell it what to do. Its only masters that tells the subordinate what to do and it obeys. To become better you, you must possess first of all the spirit to shun habits and method which does not move you any further as much as it pushes you backward.

2.    Invest in yourself: you have to invest in yourself constantly. When last did you pay for a seminar, when last did you attend a workshop training? You are not reading books. See yourself as your only turning point. Favor yourself. Continuously put more money into you. That is how to invest in you. When you invest in yourself you become an asset. People value you.

3.    Use your mind: think. Stop living according to fate. Think out your path, choose the way you want to be and start working towards it. The mind is the most powerful asset that you possess, there is nothing the mind cannot achieve. You should never ignore the mind if you want to be better.

4.    Know yourself: most people are living a life that is not their own because they fail to discover their true self. They are fascinated by other people so they spend a lot of time studying and copying them. You have to spend time with yourself to know yourself. Give yourself a break from always going with the crowd and go alone. Stop taking permission for the things you want.

Make a plan to consistently keep yourself moving. Know clearly that what you know is never enough. Analyze yourself at every moment. What do you know? Is that all you are capable of knowing? How far can this take you in life? Becoming a better you is a conscious decision which a person must make for himself.