Decision Making and Life performance. To Change Your Attitude Towards Decision Making.

 

The power to make Decisions is a leader’s quality.

Lack of decision making ability is one of the causes of Excessive anger, broken relationships, Dream failure, low self-esteem, low self-value and low self-worth, in summary, it is the reason you are not succeeding as a leader.

When you were a child you were never burdened with the responsibility of making decisions, you enjoyed the grace of adult’s decision, even if at times you were never comfortable with some of it.

Children are not given the responsibility of making major decisions, because every decision or choice comes with a price, either positive or negative.

The choices you make determines how much you know, value and like yourself. Refusing to make a choice is a choice on its own.

The power to make a choice was given to you long ago. Some people are still hunted by the shadows of childhood, in which adults were their sole decision makers and so they fail to make decision themselves.

The Principle of Focus. The One at a Time

Okay, I know you have so many ideas, and you can even lend some to the world and still have enough left over for yourself, but I also know that if you do not apply the principle of focus you won’t be able to use any of those ideas to its full potential.

It is commonly very tempting to squeeze the whole sweet cake into your tiny mouth, but we both know what happens when you attempt to do that, the fun suddenly turns into a struggle.

So many ideas at a time is as dangerous as no ideas at all. Why did I say that? People do have so many ideas and never accomplish any. They get choked up trying to accomplish all of it at a time. When you are choked, you may spit it out.

Being a jack of all trade and a master of none will not take you very far. But becoming a master in one at a time is much better.

Probably you have heard this before “Bite what you can chew”, but you have never understood it. Let me tell you about it.

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How to Know if your Dream is Genuine;Clearing The Confusion Between a Dream And a Fantasy.

In the past, I have had this difficulty differentiating between a dream and an imaginary fantasy. So many people confuse dreams for fantasy and many others confused fantasy for dreams. This confusion have caused many dreams to go down the pit.

However, Dreams and Fantasy are not too far apart, in the sense that both has to do with the mind and imagination. There are both thoughts.

Although these two are related in terms of the mind and Imaginative power, only one of it can be brought to reality and that is called Dream.

Dreams then are thought patterns, that possess the capacity to become a reality.

While on the other hand, imaginary fantasy are thought patterns, which entices the mind, but have no capacity to become a reality.

To know if your thought patterns (imaginations) is genuine, you need to constantly put it to test which I will tell you about.

Part 2- “Nothing Good Happens when You Hold Back”- Home Run

What good are we speaking of?

A man once shared his life story, how he came to become a fluent man, bold and a great public speaker, he said to me “I lived an intimidated and a shy life before my encounter. There was a day when a great woman, who was good enough to control an entire congregation of a church asked me to take over and control a certain aspect of the day’s service, I didn’t know how to say No, as this was what I always wish to do, and I didn’t know how to say Yes, as I didn’t have any skill nor experience in public speaking, but am sure if she asked, if I was willing to do it, I would have said yes.”

“While waiting for my time to mount the podium, I could hear my heart beats drumming. I had a cold palm, I had a dry throat. Unwillingly, I had to go to the bathroom more than twice, and the woman would say to me, “make sure you don’t go far, you time is close”.

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Part 1-“Nothing Good Happens When You Hold Back.”- Home Run

“Jump, and you will find out how to open your wings when you fall.”- Ray Bradbury

Have you heard of this before? Some days ago, I stumble upon this phrase “Nothing good happens when you hold back” in the movie, Home Run. What does this mean, I asked myself.

So many people hold back too often. Holding back from a thing, that you know in your heart that you are capable and deserving of, has kept you from emerging in your destiny.

To hold back simply implies, refusing to take action, refusing to make a decision, refusing to make a change, refusing to take hold of opportunities.

Why do people hold back?